Author Archives: Jay Butchko
The Evolution Of No-Fault Divorce: A Boon For Women Over Time
As we celebrate International Women’s Day, a day that features inequities faced by women across the globe, it’s worth looking at the history of women in America who were trapped in unhappy—even dangerous marriages, with no way out. Looking Back Sure, these days divorce is as common as potato chips and splinters, but it… Read More »
Divorce: When You Don’t Know How To Ask For What You Need
Everyone has particular things they need from their partners—it’s just a fact of life. Whatever those needs are, however, getting them fulfilled is not nearly as critical to one’s happiness as the strategies one has in pursuing them. When a person believes their partner is not attending to their needs, it can lead to… Read More »
When Your Ex Won’t Comply With The Terms Of The Divorce Order
If you just went through a nasty divorce, you may have breathed a huge sigh of relief when the whole thing was behind you. Unfortunately, if you share children with your former spouse, the relationship is likely far from over, and the same behaviors that were untenable during your marriage and throughout the divorce… Read More »
Do You Need A Forensic Accountant In Divorce?
You are going through a divorce, and although you’ve heard that some people utilize the skills of a forensic accountant during a split, you’re not sure if it’s something that would benefit you or not. What is a forensic account, and who benefits from their work? Forensic Accounting Forensic accountants are often used to… Read More »
Hollywood Marriages That Are Uninspiring—To Say The Least
If you’re feeling like your marriage has lost the zippity-doo-dah it once had, you’re not alone. Plenty of people come to the point where they discover that marriage isn’t quite as exciting and fun as dating was, and marital bliss isn’t all it’s cracked up to be. For some, that realization comes pretty quickly…. Read More »
Virtual Visitation As Part Of Your Custody Agreement
Divorcing parents can find that maintaining a robust and healthy relationship with their children can be a challenge, especially for parents who live far away, travel extensively, or work hours that are incompatible with the children’s school and activity schedule. In Missouri, the courts favor shared custody agreements as the ideal, but recognize that… Read More »
Complications Of Visitation & Custody: Breastfeeding
Developing a family plan is never easy when couples divorce. Children are so precious to us that giving up any time or experiences with them can be heart-wrenching. For some couples, the whole thing gets even more complex because they are dealing with children young enough to be reliant on breast milk. Child’s Needs… Read More »
Gray Divorce
People over the age of 50 are getting divorced at double the rate they did in 1990. What gives? It seems empty nesters, who no longer feel the need to stay together for the sake of the family, are finding it easier to part ways these days, what with the stronger financial standing many… Read More »
Modification Of Missouri Spousal Support
If you’ve been divorced for a period of time and either pay or receive spousal support, it’s entirely possible that either your or your ex-spouse has undergone changes in financial status since the divorce occurred. With those changes, isn’t it reasonable that the alimony—sometimes referred to as spousal support—requirements change as well? Why is… Read More »
Why Men Have A Harder Time Recuperating From Divorce
Everyone knows that adapting to life after divorce can be difficult, but you may not realize that, according to research, adjustment is much more difficult for men than it is for women. The fact is, divorced men have more heart issues, battle with substance abuse, and die at younger ages than do divorced women…. Read More »
