Author Archives: Jay Butchko
Gray Divorce
People over the age of 50 are getting divorced at double the rate they did in 1990. What gives? It seems empty nesters, who no longer feel the need to stay together for the sake of the family, are finding it easier to part ways these days, what with the stronger financial standing many… Read More »
Modification Of Missouri Spousal Support
If you’ve been divorced for a period of time and either pay or receive spousal support, it’s entirely possible that either your or your ex-spouse has undergone changes in financial status since the divorce occurred. With those changes, isn’t it reasonable that the alimony—sometimes referred to as spousal support—requirements change as well? Why is… Read More »
Why Men Have A Harder Time Recuperating From Divorce
Everyone knows that adapting to life after divorce can be difficult, but you may not realize that, according to research, adjustment is much more difficult for men than it is for women. The fact is, divorced men have more heart issues, battle with substance abuse, and die at younger ages than do divorced women…. Read More »
You’ve Been Arrested: Now What?
If you’ve just been arrested, you are likely feeling a mixture of emotions, ranging from fear and incredulity to shame and anger. What will this mean for the immediate and long-term future? Regardless of the circumstances, when you have an experienced and dogged criminal defense attorney by your side, the outcomes will likely be… Read More »
Are You Worried That Your Kids Are Not Safe With Your Ex?
You’ve gotten through a tough divorce, but the hard times are not behind you. That’s because you have been ordered by the court to share your children with their other parent—someone you believe is unfit for the job. Every time your kids head over there, you worry until you’re absolutely frazzled. What can you… Read More »
Don’t Make These Money Mistakes During And After Divorce
The costs associated with divorce can be overwhelming. While the median cost in the country is around $7,000 to cover attorney and court costs, it doesn’t take much for that number to balloon to something much less palatable. Sometimes people make additional rash mistakes during and after divorce that compound the financial stress of… Read More »
When Is It Time To Give Up On Your Marriage?
Anyone who’s married can tell you: it’s not always easy. Every marriage has ups and downs, and the downs can be pretty rough. Many couples survive these lows, confident that it’s just a temporary hitch in the road. But when is it just fanciful thinking to believe that things are going to improve? Signs… Read More »
Don’t Make Divorce Harder Than It Has To Be
There is nothing easy about divorce. That being said, the fact of the matter is that for some couples, divorce is exponentially more difficult than for others. Why is that, and what can you do to improve the odds for your own divorce? 1- Don’t let your emotions get the best of you: You… Read More »
The Holiday Divorce Trend
In January, the grim business of filing for divorce becomes a preoccupation for many. Shocking statistics tell the story: divorce rates rise as much as 30 percent after the holidays. One attorney reports that there are plenty of questions about what he calls New Year’s resolution divorce every January. Why the spike at the… Read More »
When Domestic Violence Leads To Divorce During The Holidays
When you think of the holidays, what comes to mind? Gatherings with family and friends, good food, the laughter of children, and twinkling lights? For some, though, the holidays bring out the worst. The tragic reality is that some people face the threat of violence during this season of joy and celebration, and the… Read More »
