Author Archives: Jay Butchko
Co-Parenting Tips
Co-parenting with your ex requires communicating and cooperating. This benefits both you and your ex, and, more importantly, makes the children feel safe and loved. Even if you have residual negative feelings toward your ex, experts recommend that you do whatever it takes to make things work for the sake of the kids. Transitioning… Read More »
Estate Planning After Divorce
If you’ve recently divorced, there may be some details you haven’t thought about recently. One important task for you now is to review your estate planning and make any revisions that may be appropriate. A good way to get started is to make sure your estate planner has a copy of your divorce agreement… Read More »
Parallel Parenting Can be Effective When Former Spouses Don’t Get Along
Successful co-parenting is said to be a major contributor to the emotional health of kids whose parents divorce. All the same, it is often easier said than done. Even when divorcees are dedicated to the idea of helping their kids feel loved and supported, and they recognize the importance of having their ex in… Read More »
Is The Right of First Refusal a Good Idea for Your Parenting Agreement?
When divorced parents share custody of children, there are going to be times when the parent who has custody finds themselves in need of childcare in order to work, play,, or away from home for some reason. On these occasions the other co-parent might like to pick up a little extra time with the… Read More »
The Scoop on the 7-Year Itch
We’ve all heard about the 7-year itch—that notorious time when marriages seem to fall apart. So is it all mythology, or is there anything behind it? We could start by asking how long the average first-marriage lasts? The answer is 8.2 years. Some conclude that the seven-year-itch takes its toll, and couples decide to… Read More »
Kevin Costner and the Ironclad Prenup that Wasn’t
It’s a legal fracas for the books: mega-movie star Kevin Costner and estranged wife Christine Baumgartner are fighting tooth and nail despite having a prenuptial agreement that was sold to the couple as being “ironclad.” After nearly two decades together Baumgartner filed for divorce, and is now challenging the prenup and the terms of… Read More »
Social Security for Divorcees
As a senior who’s contemplating divorce, you may be concerned about how you’ll make ends meet when you’re on your own. Grey divorce is becoming more common these days, so there are plenty of people in the same boat. One income source you may not have considered is what you might get from the… Read More »
Making Co-parenting Work
Co-parenting: just the thought is overwhelming! Your kids are your top priority, and it’s tough to give up control of them to the person you couldn’t bear to live with any longer. Even with a fairly decent relationship with your former spouse, co-parenting can bring tough times. For those who have a terrible relationship… Read More »
Divorce: What You Should and Shouldn’t Do
Without question, divorce can be nerve-wracking, but sometimes people make things more difficult than they need to be. So before you move forward with your divorce, consider the what some experts recommend you should and shouldn’t do: You should contact a local lawyer who will represent your interests: Outcomes are generally better when you… Read More »
You’re in for a Custody Battle: What’s on the Table?
In most situations, people agree that children do best when they have a strong relationship with both parents following divorce. Even so, there are cases in which divorcing couples fight over custody issues and one or both feels vehemently that sole custody is the best option. What does the court look at when weighing… Read More »
