Is Your Spouse Cheating on You?

If you think your spouse is being unfaithful, you may wonder if you’re crazy or if you should trust your gut. Relationship experts say there are real signs that could be an indication of cheating. Check out this list and see how many of the signs are exactly the signs you are seeing in your marriage.

• Although you used to be able to get in touch all the time, does it seem like lately you can never get ahold of your spouse? The sudden change could mean that they need privacy while they are out with someone else.
• Are your spouse’s friends a little more distant lately? They may have knowledge that would be upsetting to you, and don’t want to be caught in the middle of a dramatic scene. It can cause real feelings of guilt and anxiety if they really like you, but don’t want to rat out their friend.
• Has the sex slowed to a near stop at home? There’s a possibility they’re getting it elsewhere. On the other hand, some people tend to try to assuage their guilt by increasing sex at home.
• Are they taking more time focusing on their appearance? Trying out new cologne? Someone who’s trying to look and smell their best every time they step out the door may have somebody they’re trying to impress, especially if the behavior is new and unexplained.
• Are phone habits changing? Does your spouse keep changing their password, or do they keep it under cover when they used to leave it laying around at home? Do they get text messages with a frequency that is unusual?
• Have discussions about tomorrow become few and far between? If you are no longer planning vacations or long-term activities, there may be a reason.
• Is your partner becoming reclusive, difficult to talk to, distracted, or emotionally unavailable? If something is shifting between the two of you, it’s worth pursuing so you can address it.
• Do things seem to simply not add up in the narrative of their day? If your spouse is up to no good, their story may not make sense because it is not true.
• Does your spouse get defensive or start to make you feel like you might be imagining things? Do they start to accuse YOU of cheating? Don’t let them get away with gaslighting if you know things are off.
• Is money suddenly short? Is it possible your spouse is spending on someone else?

Your Advocate in Divorce

These are just some of the most common signs of infidelity. While many couples choose to fight for their relationship, some spouses want to throw in the towel. If you’re in the latter category, the experienced, compassionate Springfield divorce attorneys at Courtney & Mills can help. Schedule a confidential consultation in our office today.